Is He God-Sent or Just Available?
Is He God-Sent or Just Available?
Is He God-Sent or Just Available? by Damilola Adebayo is a powerful Christian relationship guide created to help women discern the difference between a man sent by God and one who is simply present, available, or emotionally convenient. Rooted deeply in biblical wisdom, spiritual discernment, and practical relationship principles, this transformative eBook walks readers through the critical process of choosing a life partner with clarity, wisdom, and purpose rather than pressure, loneliness, or emotion alone.
Across 15 insightful chapters, this book explores essential topics including godly character, emotional purity, prayer in relationships, red flags, green flags, church pressure, attachment wounds, intentional dating, and how to recognise whether a relationship aligns with God’s purpose for your life. Readers are guided through honest self-examination, biblical standards for relationships, and practical conversations that should happen before commitment.
Unlike many relationship books that focus only on attraction or chemistry, this guide emphasises spiritual compatibility, Christlike character, emotional maturity, accountability, and covenant-centred love. It addresses the realities Christian women face today — including pressure to marry, fear of waiting too long, emotional attachment, and confusion about whether a relationship truly carries God’s peace and direction.
Inside this eBook, readers will discover:
- How to identify genuine green flags in a godly man
- Red flags that should never be ignored
- The difference between attraction and divine assignment
- How to pray for relational discernment
- Questions to ask before saying “yes”
- How to protect emotional purity while dating
- How to handle church and societal pressure about marriage
- When walking away is the obedient decision
- A practical “God-Sent Man Discernment Checklist” for relationship evaluation
Written in a spiritually grounded yet emotionally intelligent style, this book is ideal for Christian women who desire marriage but refuse to settle for relationships that compromise their faith, peace, purpose, or standards. Whether single, dating, recovering from heartbreak, or preparing for marriage, readers will gain biblical insight, emotional wisdom, and practical tools to navigate relationships intentionally and prayerfully.
This is more than a dating guide — it is a call to discern wisely, wait purposefully, and trust God completely with one of life’s most important decisions.